How Does Emotional Intelligence Compare To IQ
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People often talk about emotional intelligence (or EQ for short) as if it is something you are either born with or not, like blood type. It is actually not that way at all!
EQ is an internal quality that helps you manage your emotions and relate to people. Like IQ, which we already discussed, there is no clear definition of what makes someone have high EQ, but researchers agree that it plays a big role in how successful you are in life.
There are some theories about why having higher EQ is important, but none of them really match up when tested against each other so most experts now believe they are all right on their own.
What does matter though is whether you have more developed EQ than others around you, and how these differences influence the relationships you build and work you succeed in achieving.
This article will discuss the five major types of EQ and how much everyone has access to them. Then, we’ll look at some examples of how being smart about your feelings can help you achieve your goals and contribute to the world. You don’t need to be super-empathic to enjoy success, but it could make a difference.
The correlation with IQ
While emotional intelligence is clearly important, it is tricky to measure. Most assessments of EI are self-reported questionnaires that ask you to evaluate statements like “I would describe myself as confident” or “I should probably try harder to be more friendly” or “It was very easy for me to put up my own barriers when needed.”
The problem with this approach is that people can easily lie about their feelings even in the presence of others. For example, someone who does not feel much confidence may respond with an upbeat statement such as “Today I learned how to play guitar!”
So while some studies claim that there is a link between emotional quotient (EQ) and academic success, they likely underestimate the importance of emotions in the school system. After all, students often learn best via experiences rather than education alone!
Furthermore, since emotional literacy depends on your personal experience, not everyone will agree on what makes an emotionally intelligent person. This creates even more variance in the measures of EQ.
Overall, due to its indirect nature, emotional intelligence is difficult to quantify and compare across individuals. Because of these issues, most experts agree that using emotional skills to improve other qualities is the better use of resources.
Differences between emotional intelligence and Iq
While both EQ and Iq are important, they exist in different areas of our lives and have different purposes. This can make it difficult to compare one to the other and say which is more powerful.
The first major difference comes down to what each is designed to measure. The term “emotional” intelligence was coined in the 1990s, so there aren’t many studies that look at this as an independent variable.
However, we do know that people with high levels of EI report feeling happier than individuals who don’t. They also tend to be less stressed and suffer from lower rates of anxiety and depression.
Iq, or “intellectual” (or logical) ability, has been around much longer. We’ve seen evidence of its importance since Socrates made references to it in his writings.
Ways to improve emotional intelligence
Recent developments in understanding emotion have led to a new way of defining emotional intelligence- not as having good emotions, but being able to identify your own emotions and differentiate them from those of other people.
This definition is different because it focuses on whether you can recognize your feelings before they take over or if you use reasoning to understand why you feel a certain way.
With this redefinition, there are several ways to increase your emotional intelligence. You can learn how to recognize your emotions through exercises and practices that focus on yourself only.
You can also work on learning what causes your emotions and avoiding things that may be triggering for you so that you do not get overwhelmed. In fact, studying psychology has many courses that talk about how to reduce stress and hone your self-awareness.
There are even apps that measure your emotional quotient (EQ) and tell you where you stand compared to others your age. This is helpful since everyone’s personality changes as they grow older, especially when life gets more complicated.
Emotional intelligence isn’t something that fully develops until young adulthood, and many find their middle school years to be the most difficult stage due to changing priorities and demands.
Teach people to be authentic
Many believe that emotional intelligence is the key to happiness, but this theory has been debunked. A person’s sense of well-being does not depend on their level of empathy or whether they are able to relate to others, but rather if they are able to identify and understand your emotions and how you feel about them.
This is called understanding other people.
It is also important to note that anyone can learn how to be more aware of and understanding of other people’s feelings, which makes the claim that only some people have it wrong.
Many people seem to think that emotional intelligence is what makes you succeed, or even that it is more important than IQ. They also believe that being emotionally intelligent means being able to control your emotions, which is only part of the equation.
The other part is using those emotions to achieve your goals and understand how others’ emotions work so you can manipulate them for your own benefit.
This isn’t possible if you don’t know what things motivate you and why you feel the way you do, which goes against the very nature of having an understanding of yourself.
So, while controlling your emotions can make a small difference, it doesn’t help you too much unless you are aware of what motivates you and why you feel the way you do.
Furthermore, there are lots of ways to be smart about managing your emotions, but none of them will work unless you actually use your brain and learn new things.
IQ alone won’t get you anywhere. It takes emotional intelligence to move forward in life.
Communicate your feelings
A recent study suggests that emotional intelligence is actually more important than IQ when it comes to success in life. The researchers looked at all of the factors that contribute to someone’s success, and determined that emotional quotient (EQ) was by far the most significant factor.
Other studies have confirmed this finding. For example, Harvard University conducted an experiment with twenty-four undergraduates. They were each given two minutes and asked to talk about anything they wanted.
After two weeks, the students were reminded that they would be paid $5 for every minute they spent talking without being interrupted. Twenty of them agreed to do the job and were paid according to how much time they had.
The twenty paid participants made an average of $1,600 which confirms the findings of the earlier study! Why? Because successful people are good listeners and understand other people’s emotions.
In creating an environment that encourages emotional intelligence, you want to make sure that your employees know what kind of behavior is allowed and expected. They should feel comfortable expressing their emotions in both in-office settings and outside of work.
Research has shown that people who learn how to manage their own emotions are more likely to keep their jobs than those who don’t. And let’s not forget that emotional workers are typically paid better!
Emotionally intelligent individuals recognize and understand their feelings so they can take time off from work to deal with them. They also identify and address underlying causes of negative feelings so that they do not get out of control.
It may be difficult at first to determine whether or not someone has low levels of emotional literacy. But if you have doubts about his or her ability to handle stress, put in a good faith effort to communicate clearly and consistently.
If you're still unsure after several attempts, it might be best to look for another job — unless you really believe in this individual's potential.
Many people believe that emotional intelligence is the key to success, but there are many who put more emphasis on being happy or having lots of emotions. This theory suggests that successful individuals were just born with more emotion than others and thus, they succeed in business.
This theory also implies that being happier makes you more successful. Some even go as far to say that happiness is directly influenced by how much money you have, making it an indirect factor in success.
Both theories are wrong!
Success does not depend on your internal state of mind nor is being happier related to greater income. In fact, studies show that unhappy people make better decisions than those who are constantly smiling.
Emotional intelligence has little to do with whether you are rich or poor and everything to do with how you manage yourself and other people.