Howdy! A Portland, OR native, I currently reside in the northern San Diego County area as a freelance writer. When I'm not sipping coffee, soaking up some rays and writing or playing guitar you can find me at the hot yoga studio.
If you’re an American guy, then you’ve probably had a lot of great sex with many beautiful women.
However, the problem of having no women to date is a problem for many of us.
It’s okay; it’s one of those challenges of modern life that we can only surmount by ourselves.
However, that doesn’t mean we have to stand idly by while some other guy’s sex life grows stronger and stronger with one girl after another.
There’s another way to avoid becoming the cliché “King of Crazy.” And that’s to pay attention to what women are saying about you.
You may think they’re telling you things you don’t want to hear, or maybe you think that they’re only saying those things to help you build attraction with other women.
The reality is that sometimes they’re not saying it for you to hear at all.
In fact, the women I know that are willing to admit they “only say that stuff to help you date other girls” all say the same thing:
Women that care about you will tell you so!
The reason the women you’re sleeping with tell you what they tell you is because you matter.
By not paying attention to what women say, you give up some power to the opposite sex.
If you were smart, you’d take advantage of that.
There are many ways to tell a woman cares about you. Here are some of them.
Once you’ve established intimacy, a woman will almost always hold on to you when she hugs you.
As you walk away, the arms will remain around you, and her face will be resting on your shoulder.
Women use this hug to let you know they really care about you.
But this isn’t the only way a woman can tell you she cares about you.
As a man, you can also tell a woman cares about you in two different ways.
The first is to hug her with a full-body hug.
The other is by calling her on the phone or socializing with her in front of other people.
You can do this by simply focusing your attention on her while ignoring everyone else.
This works in the same way a full-body hug works. Women rarely react negatively to this form of flirting.
When a woman asks a man out on a date, she will often say something like, “Can I get your number?”
And then she’ll wait. She will stay on the phone, she will smile at you, or she’ll stare at you.
You may think she’s too busy to answer your text messages, but that’s usually because she is.
If you do catch her in the right mood, she will quickly find a reason to end the conversation.
However, the point here is that, because she’s showing you her desire for you, women will often ask you out or flirt with you just because they care about you.
A kiss on the cheek is really old-fashioned. It just doesn’t carry the same sexual charge as a kiss on the lips.
Most women feel a special physical attraction for men when they choose to kiss them.
However, this isn’t the only way that a woman can show you that she cares about you.
A woman can also kiss you on the cheek. The action is nothing more than an expression of her desire.
For many women, kissing is a statement of love.
Some women use it to prove that they really care about you and want to spend the rest of their lives with you.
To tell a woman that she cares about you, you have to know how to read her body language.
And that means being attentive to what she’s saying.
She can show you that she cares about you in many different ways:
She can act possessive about you (this usually means she’s ready to be committed)
She can touch you and hold your hand (this is a simple physical form of flirting)
She can show her affection by saying, “I love you” (this is a more emotional way she shows her love)
She can smile at you (this is an indication that she is content with the relationship)
She can hold your hand (this is a physical indication of her desire for you)
She can give you an affectionate hug (this is a physical expression of her need for you)
She can touch your face and gently caress it (this shows her desire)
She can do all of this while looking into your eyes.
An important part of taking control of the relationship is noticing her signals.
Women often show you that they care about you by saying, “I love you” or “I’m in love with you.”
This is one of the most important ways that a woman can tell you that she cares about you. If a woman truly loves you, she will show you with words and actions that she feels the same way.
This “I’m in love with you” cue shows you that she feels very strongly about you. She shows this by deciding to be committed to you.
However, don’t just take her word for it. Tell her you to love her, as well. If you do, you’ll be letting her know that you have the same feelings for her.
The importance of this “I love you” cue is that it’s not just a line. It’s not a cop-out.
It’s a way for her to let you know that she really cares about you.