How To Tell A Girl Why You Love Her
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Many people still cannot understand why a man should love a woman, but love is a choice.
It’s not something that just happens to people, it is an individual choice, and a way to have your cake and eat it too.
You can have the best thing in your life, and if you do not tell your woman that you love her, it will be all for nothing.
However, women will come and go, and you should love your partner for who she is, not what you want her to be.
A wise man once said that “Tell me what you want and I’ll do it.” This means, find what you want in a partner and work towards it.
This doesn’t mean that you are going to change who your partner is, but you must understand what your partner needs and how they get what they need from you. If you do this, you will be a lot better at loving your partner.
1. Ask for her approval
All the women I know and have ever loved, have always been great about wanting their man’s approval.
They do not like to feel like their man loves them out of obligation.
If he loves them without the need for approval then she will love him that much more.
2. Be grateful for her
When you do something for your partner, do it with a good attitude.
You want to give her the best gift you can give her.
If she does something for you, do the same, without having to be thanked.
Do not say “thank you” for doing the dishes without a thank you card. Show your appreciation, don’t just say it.
3. Let her help you
This can take many forms, but the most common is letting her help you around the house, with the kids, or whatever else she does for you.
You need to understand that her not doing these things for you shows that she does not love you.
You must let her help you, and tell her when you need her to help you, and thank her profusely when she does.
You will see that she will be motivated to do these things for you because she loves you.
4. Give her time to find the right one
Many men feel as though a woman needs to be in a certain place, by a certain time, for them to want to be with her.
The truth is that many women are ready to be with their men at a certain time.
A woman will only be in a certain place with you if she truly loves you, and if you tell her that you want her to be there.
5. Make her feel special
If you love her, you will want her to feel special.
You want to be the one she calls in the middle of the night, who brings her flowers when they break up, and who provides her with advice on how to keep the man she likes from leaving her.
6. Tell her how beautiful she is
A woman loves when her man tells her how beautiful she is.
A man will only tell her she is beautiful when he really means it, and he will never be able to express his love in a way she will appreciate.
Tell her all the time that she is beautiful, and she will never doubt how you feel about her.
7. Do not hold on too long
You cannot hold a woman too tightly. She will always leave. They always do.
Try and hold her tight as much as you can, because as you hold her, she will begin to see that you really do care about her, and that will make it hard to let go.
Give her a big bear hug and she will never want to let go.
8. Be honest
A man should never lie to a woman. You should never tell her a lie to make her happy.
Sometimes a lie is for the best. If you are doing something because you want to, you don’t have to worry about lying.
Being honest will let her know how you feel, and it will give you a chance to let her down gently.
9. Focus on her needs
A man should never ignore a woman’s needs.
If she needs help with the kids, cook dinner, or something else, take care of it.
If you are doing it for you, she will see this as love, but if you are doing it for her, she will see this as taking advantage of her.
Always make sure she is being taken care of.
10. Give her a loved up kiss
Make sure that you kiss her every single day. It does not have to be romantic or anything like that, just a kiss.
A lot of times, a man will kiss a woman to make her feel better, but in the process, he is losing his manhood.
Make sure you show your love for her in any way you can.
11. Be your partner
The man will always be in charge of his relationship, no matter what the couple decides to do.
He is in charge of everything in their relationship, but he should never force her to do anything that is against her will.
If she is not comfortable with something, he should respect that and do his best not to make her do anything she is uncomfortable with.
If you are her partner, you need to treat her like your partner, and never try to boss her around.
12. Do not slander her
Don’t tell her lies about her to other people.
If you are in a relationship with a woman, you should not be telling people that her mother is a prostitute or that she is a crazy woman or anything like that.
These things will hurt your relationship with your partner, and the most important thing is that you should never tell these things.